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Wedding planning tips on a budget

June 23, 2017 by Lisa Grable 19 Comments

Wedding planning can be fun for bride, mom, and maid-of-honor, but the hard part is keeping the costs under control. You have to be serious about what you can actually afford. We just got our daughter Agnes and Pippin married and I want to share some tips with you on ways to keep wedding planning on a budget. Wedding planning on a limited budget with a budget spreadsheet to download for helping you plan your big day. Use our wedding planning tips. Be sure to download this budget planning spreadsheet to help you in your wedding planning. Make changes as needed for your families’ cultural practices and customs.

Flowers

  • Flowers for a wedding can be crazy expensive. I looked on Yelp for florists with good reviews and one stood out with comments saying how well she worked within a budget. When I called, I asked what she could do with X dollars. She didn’t flinch! It was definitely worth starting the conversation that way.
  • I took pictures of flowers at the grocery store that were the right colors (alstroemerias are pretty cheap and come in many colors!). We got a bouquet for the bride and posies for the bridesmaids. And Agnes told the florist that the posies did not need to match, as long as the flowers fit the color scheme. We were happy with how it turned out.wedding-planning-flowers
  • Beware asparagus fern! It can shed like crazy and possibly stick to the gowns.
  • We got inexpensive vases for the reception tables and the bouquet and posies went into the vases for decoration.
  • Traditionally, men can wear a pocket square OR a boutonniere. Agnes and Pippin decided to go with pocket squares for the men.
  • We ordered boutonnieres for all the people who needed to wear flowers, male or female. Two orchids and a little greenery were more affordable than corsages.

Venues

You may need a place for the wedding ceremony and one for the reception. You might be able to find a place that can hold both. Churches, hotel ballrooms, and country clubs are traditional choices. One thing that makes a venue expensive is if they require their own caterer or have a very strict caterers list. You may need to think of more options. Try checking out local museums and parks. Many outdoor venues these days have a covered area in case of weather. Sometimes a wedding venue a little farther out of town can be less expensive than in town.

Do you need to rent tables and chairs?

We booked a venue that was an empty space. At first we were going to buy tablecloths from a dollar or party store and set up and break down all the tables and chairs ourselves. We soon realized that it would save money, but at a different kind of cost. I knew The Gardener and I would not be able to handle it while all dressed up for the wedding. So we paid the extra money for delivery, set up, and pick up. I really think that was a good expense.Wedding planning on a limited budget with a budget spreadsheet to download for helping you plan your big day. Use our wedding planning tips. We used the least expensive white folding chairs and plywood tables. With white tablecloths, the flowers, and everyone’s good mood, it was just fine.

Cake

Part of the fun of wedding planning is the cake tastings! You can spend tons of money on the cake depending on what you choose and how elaborate the decorations. Remember that the top layer of the cake is normally made to keep in your freezer to eat on your anniversary. If that’s not something you want to do, you may be able to save a little by asking for that top layer to be part of the serving count.wedding-planning-cake

Photographer

The cost of the photographer will probably be one of the biggest expenses for the wedding. If you want photos and video they may want to send 3 people or more to do the work, raising the price. We saved a little money by getting photos only and booking 5 hours of time.

Food

We chose 2 pm for the wedding time so that we were not serving lunch or dinner to the guests, just refreshments. Hot food is more expensive than cold and will probably require a kitchen and a chef on site. The price for some caterers includes servers. For convenience, we wanted a caterer that would deliver food ready to put out on a buffet table. We found one by going through local restaurants that we liked until we found one that would deliver. Think about if you want to order drinks and all the paper goods from the caterer.

Music

A band or DJ are good choices for a wedding. Agnes and Pippin saved by spending time on making three playlists on a digital device: Wedding Before, Processional, and Wedding Reception. This was about 4 hours of music. It was hooked up to a PA system and a designated friend was in charge of playing it at the appropriate times.wedding-planning-5

Groomsmen gifts

My happy couple said, “What is it with all the alcohol and knife gifts for guys? Those just don’t fit our groomsmen.” Traditionally, you would choose a gift as an heirloom keepsake, such as a silver bourbon flask or pewter Jefferson cup. You can choose something more fun and less expensive. Matching bowties or socks would work, or silly individualized socks that match each personality (Star Wars, dinosaurs, surfboards…). How about a Keffiyeh-type scarf from an import store? Think about stores or vendors you like, beyond the typical engrave-able remembrance shop.

Online wedding planning and wedding websites

Using a wedding planning website can be helpful and convenient. The website can seem like a one-stop shop to find all your wedding vendors. Budget-minded brides need to watch out! The vendors on the website may only include high end ones that can afford the advertising fees. Using Yelp or other review websites for your area may be more helpful in finding vendors that fit your budget. Making a wedding website can help with announcing all the events during the wedding weekend and keeping track of RSVPs. If you go this route, be sure the Web address of the site is on the Save-the-date and the Invitation.wedding-planning-handfasting We thought that invited guests could RSVP online and save the expense of response cards. Be aware that older folks are not used to that idea at all! At the end, we had to contact about a third of our guest list to find out if they were attending or not.

Registry and gifts

  • No matter how hard you try, people will bring presents to the wedding. So make sure that someone is in charge of packing them up after the wedding and there is a place to take them. If you are a guest and are doing this (unavoidably, I hope), wrap your card on the inside of the present and don’t bring a gift bag! The gifts will very likely get thrown into someone’s pickup truck!
  • Agnes registered online with Target and Amazon. She found that Amazon was a better option. She could easily see what had been purchased and who the gifter was. Also, close to the wedding date, she received 20% for anything left on the list she purchased herself through Prime. With Target, if the gifter wrote a note, it was printed on the invoice. Several gifts they received did not have the invoice packed in the shipping box! This makes it difficult to write thank you notes! Agnes contacted Target and found out they could send her a list of the gifts with the senders.
  • Be sure to include a special box for the gift table for cards. You want to make sure the cards people bring (often with checks, cash, or gift cards) make it into the post-wedding pickup!wedding-planning-fitting

Mail

I do not recommend using postcards for any of your wedding mailings. Many young people live in apartments and we found out that those tended to not get delivered! Also, the US Postal Service has very strict rules about how to write addresses. Be sure to follow these if you want to make sure your mailings have a high hit rate! https://pe.usps.com/text/pub28/28c2_003.htm

Download this task planning checklist to help everyone keep track of what needs to be done heading towards the wedding day and the big day itself!

Our highest costs

Here’s our highest costs in order: tables and chairs; photographer; venue; flowers; caterer; wedding dress and alteration. After weddings for three daughters, my biggest wedding planning tip is to hire a wedding planner if you can find the money. It really can lower the stress level if someone who is not a family member is the one who is bossing everyone around. How nice if the folks in the immediate families are not trying to organize or coordinate anything and just enjoy the party!wedding-planning-2

Resource links for wedding planning

  • https://katherinescornershop.com/collections/wedding-collection
    • Handmade and made to order wedding accessories from Katherine’s Corner.
  • https://www.guidesforbrides.co.uk/wedding-ideas/wedding-speeches
    • Ideas for wedding toast speeches. Don’t forget to add the maid of honor!
  • http://emilypost.com/advice/wedding-expenses-the-traditional-division/
    • Traditional division of wedding expenses from Emily Post
  • http://www.savingssarah.com/2017/03/09/save-money-on-wedding-reception/
    • 7 smart ways to save money on wedding reception from Sarah Fuller
  • http://www.personalcreations.com/blog/wedding-reception-timeline
    • Wedding reception timeline from Personal Creations blog
  • http://www.proflowers.com/blog/bridal-shower-etiquette#chart
    • Bridal shower tips from ProFlowers
  • http://www.fashionbeans.com/content/overrated-wedding-trends-that-need-to-be-retired?rtg=waka-0hjMTw&param4=fsb-fni-fbss-1219-us-mo-ocpm&param5=10154383470741186&param6=23842609749970463
    • Overrated wedding trends from Fashion Beans
  • http://sewtravelinspired.com/the-10-commandments-for-wedding-guests/
    • 10 commandments for wedding guests from Sew Travel Inspired
  • http://thedailysouth.southernliving.com/2015/07/17/charm-school-wedding-thank-yous/?xid=socialflow_facebook
    • Wedding Thank Yous from The Daily South
  • http://www.twotwentyone.net/our-wedding-details/
    • Our Wedding The Details from Two Twenty One
  • https://weddinglovely.com/blog/top-five-wedding-website-builders/
    • Top Five Wedding Website Builders has a comprehensive list. From Wedding Lovely.

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  1. Steve Simmons

    July 19, 2017 at 5:17 am

    Thanks for this! I’m getting married in this year and have been going through these thoughts myself since I’m also a wedding vendor! It’s important to me to highlight my skills and my professional contribution to my wedding, but not at the expense of having the event itself be truly meaningful. It was really helpful to go through your list and compare that to my own

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    • Lisa Grable

      July 19, 2017 at 10:59 am

      Hey Steve, Thanks for visiting. Agnes and Pippin did a good job concentrating on the ceremony itself. It was very meaningful. Guests actually contacted them afterwards to talk about the inspiration and the meaning. I hope you have a lovely time at your wedding!

      Reply
  2. Teresa

    July 15, 2017 at 9:14 am

    Your daughter is beautiful and the wedding looks like it turned out so lovely. Thank you for all of these wonderful wedding planning tips. This will be very helpful to those planning a weddng! Thank you for sharing your daughter’s day with us at the #BloggingGrandmothersLinkParty!

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    • Lisa Grable

      July 16, 2017 at 7:11 am

      Hey Teresa, Thanks so much! I do hope these tips will help others planning a wedding. My daughter and I agreed to plan it like a very nice party and try not to get sucked into the wedding fantasies on TV!

      Reply
  3. Carol ("Mimi")

    July 10, 2017 at 5:06 pm

    Weddings are joyous occasions for the entire family. Thanks for sharing great tips. Thank you for linking up at #BloggingGrandmothersLinkParty. I’m sharing your link on social media.
    Carol (“Mimi”) from Home with Mimi

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    • Lisa Grable

      July 11, 2017 at 6:31 am

      Hey Carol, Thanks for visiting! I appreciate the compliments and the sharing!

      Reply
  4. lorigraceh

    July 7, 2017 at 1:19 am

    Thank you for sharing at ‪#BloggingGrandmothersLinkParty‬.

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  5. Clearissa Coward

    July 6, 2017 at 11:07 pm

    All of your ideas are stunning. Thank you for linking up at the #BloggingGrandmothersLinkParty.

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    • Lisa Grable

      July 7, 2017 at 2:00 pm

      Thanks, Clarissa, you are so kind!

      Reply
  6. Grammy Dee

    July 4, 2017 at 1:39 am

    Lots of great advice! Thank you Lisa for linking up at the #BloggingGrandmothersLinkParty. I shared this post.

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    • Lisa Grable

      July 4, 2017 at 7:49 pm

      Thanks so much!

      Reply
  7. sizzlesue15

    July 3, 2017 at 3:08 pm

    Hi Lisa, sometimes I look at the amount of money some people spend on weddings rather than putting the emphasis on the actual marriage. You’ve shown us that you can plan a wedding on a budget. Thanks for sharing with us at #BloggingGrandmothersLinkParty and hope to see you at the next one.

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    • Lisa Grable

      July 3, 2017 at 6:31 pm

      Hey Sue, You are so sweet to visit! I agree that the emphasis should be on the meaning of the day and enjoying all the friends and family that come to share. Agnes and Pippin did a great job focusing on a meaningful ceremony – and everyone loved it!

      Reply
  8. Donna

    July 2, 2017 at 10:19 pm

    As we have two more weddings coming up soon, I greatly appreciate your advice. Thanks for sharing at: #BloggingGrandmothersLinkParty.

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    • Lisa Grable

      July 3, 2017 at 6:24 am

      Hey Donna, I hope your wedding planning is going well. I still believe you can have a special event without breaking the bank!

      Reply
  9. Jan Rivero

    June 24, 2017 at 6:07 pm

    As a pastor who has performed probably hundreds of weddings DON’T STIFF THE PREACHER! If you can afford $1000 on flowers you can afford $500 for the person who is making this legal. It’s just plain rude to spend over $10,000 on a wedding and give the officiant a $25 gift card. I typically spend at least five hours with the couple: 3 pre-marital sessions, a rehearsal and the ceremony. $100/hour is not unreasonable. Honestly.

    As a mother of the bride: don’t forget to make yourself a “week of wedding check list.” That will vary from event to event, but could include things like: picking up people from airports, getting the guest book, checking the venues, writing thank you notes that get sent day of, etc. A friend advised this and it was the biggest help for me. Kept me sane!

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    • Lisa Grable

      June 25, 2017 at 12:40 pm

      Absolutely, Jan! Our checklist had 3 weeks out, one week out, and last two days. Sounds like I should make another printable. Clipboards for everybody!

      Reply
  10. Patty

    June 23, 2017 at 8:23 am

    Great article Lisa. Love the spreadsheet and extra links too! The pictures really convey a lovely wedding and a happy couple. Thanks for sharing..

    Reply
    • Lisa Grable

      June 23, 2017 at 12:06 pm

      Hey Patty, Thanks for stopping by. I do think it was a very memorable and happy day for the happy couple!

      Reply

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